No, You Don’t Have To Be Lucky To Love Your Work

January 10, 2013 — 12 Comments

I like to keep up on work and career/job blogs, and one of my biggest frustrations is finding advice that encourages people to “settle” or “be realistic.” I came across an article this evening that falls into that category.

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I was intrigued by the title –  6 Career Myths You Shouldn’t Fall For and dug in deeper to see what the author had to say. The first myth… that a college degree will get you a job. Good so far. I agree. A college degree will NOT guarantee you a job. It may qualify you for a job, but it won’t guarantee you get one.

Then I hit myth #2… that money will come if you follow your passion. It’s possible to follow your passion and not make money, but here is the kicker that prompted me to respond:

“If you’re passionate about poetry or painting, you’re going to find very limited job opportunities for those things. In fact, the people who get to do what they love for a job are the lucky ones; they’re not the majority. A better goal is to find work that you can do reasonably happily; it doesn’t need to be your passion.”

So there you have it. Strive to be reasonably happy in your work. Does that sound good to you? I can’t wait to get up tomorrow and go do something that makes me reasonably happy.

How encouraging! Those people who love what they do…they are just lucky. You can’t make that a reality for you. Being really good at something won’t do the trick, being creative isn’t enough, you need luck –  and if you don’t have that then just take the first thing that comes along that you at least like on some level. Yes, sometimes it is okay to do work you don’t love –  but it those times should be part of a plan to achieve your goals (which hopefully include being happy!)

So what do you do if your passion is poetry or painting or something else that has a perceived lower value in the marketplace? The truth is that there are always more options. It isn’t always a choice between being a poor poet or rich and unhappy in a corporate job. Get creative. Try to come up with thirty things that you could do to make money at what you love. That could mean creating a product that uses your skill, or teaching others how to do it, or even a corporate job where you get to use your passion as part of your work. The possibilities are endless.

Last thought. Today’s economy values creativity and art more than it ever has in the past. These are the things that can’t be shipped overseas. They can’t be broken down into steps and replicated in a factory. Not only can you make money doing what you love, it may be the only way.

What do you think?  Do you think it is okay to be reasonably happy in your job?

 

  • http://www.liveitforward.com/ Kent Julian

    This is hard to answer for me because I LOVE what I do for work. For me, work feels like I’m playing.

    I have a hard time envisioning just being ‘reasonably happy” in my job. If that was the case, I think I would have to find things I really like outside of work to make up for it.

    • http://www.mondayisgood.com/ Tom Dixon

      What we are passionate about has to come out somewhere, doesn’t it? I think more likely since you have seen the line between work and play blurred, you would work like crazy to get back to that feeling. Great thought, thanks!

  • http://www.lifeofasteward.com Loren Pinilis

    I don’t think that we should merely strive to be reasonably happy, but I do think sometimes that we should change our expectations of reality. I think you and the article are basically saying the same thing – don’t necessarily think that you can get a well-paying job doing whatever you want to do. You have to adapt. Look for ways to use your skills and passions in lucrative ways.
    The key is that the article seems to imply that you keep your desires but merely settle. You’re saying that you grow to be passionate about the work that you can do.
    I would vote with you, but I think the overall idea of being realistic about a career is a pretty good one.

    • http://www.mondayisgood.com/ Tom Dixon

      We are on the same page, but my point is you give up a lot when you settle or put a “realistic” filter up. Finding a lucrative way to do what you love is probably the best way to say it…Appreciate you stopping by!

  • http://www.danerickson.net/ Dan Erickson

    I followed my passion for ten years after high school and never made any money. So I went back to college for working in radio. I still didn’t make much money. So I continued college and now teach at the community college level. I like my job. I wouldn’t say I love it, but I do enjoy it. Plus, I can still follow my passions on the side.

    • http://www.mondayisgood.com/ Tom Dixon

      Who knows, maybe that side work will turn into something bigger!

      • http://www.danerickson.net/ Dan Erickson

        That’s what I’m aiming for in time. I’d like to retire from “full-time” teaching at 60 if I can.

  • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

    I think following your passions always brings fulfillment and not necessarily money. I would rather be doing something of value and fulfillment then making a whole lot of money but hating what I do.

    I think if we have a job we like but that is not within our areas of passion, it’s essential to find an outlet (during our free time) to work within our areas of passion.

    • http://www.mondayisgood.com/ Tom Dixon

      Agreed…but following your passion and making money are not mutually exclusive, at least they don’t have to be. Side job is great example of how to get started in that area!

      • http://danblackonleadership.com/ Dan Black

        Great point, I have a full time job but my true passion is to write and speak full time. I’m doing that on the side until I can do it full time.

  • http://dreamjobprogram.com/ Drew Tewell

    I think we can have both, the money and work we enjoy. It is dangerous to settle for less because once we have settled, we have lowered our expectations.

    At the same time, this may take longer than what we had hoped, but success is a journey, and the journey is what shapes us and really makes us great. Thanks, Tom!

    • http://www.mondayisgood.com/ Tom Dixon

      YES. It isn’t either or…it’s BOTH! Maybe not today – but if not today, then it is with a PLAN to get there. Thanks!